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The One Question You Should Never Ask a Doula

February 18, 2019 By Deena 2 Comments

Before hiring a doula, clients interview them. This is a time to get to know the doula, learn about the compliment of services offered and see if the doula is a good fit for the client. However, it happens fairly often that a client will as the one question they shouldn’t.

Filed Under: Doulas, Into the Light, Main Blog Page Tagged With: Childbirth, Communication, Decision making, Doula, Expectations, Ideal Birth, Motherhood, Mothers

The Lamaze Method Failed Me

October 18, 2017 By Deena Leave a Comment

Recently, I met a mom in a bar with her baby. Yep. A baby-in-a-bar. Eh, why not? Anyway, she and I got to talking and I told her what I did for a living. She then said something that made me take pause. She said that she’d taken the hospital’s Lamaze class, but “it didn’t work […]

Filed Under: Main Blog Page Tagged With: Birth, Childbirth, Childbirth Education Classes, Communication, Decision making, Epidural, Expectations, Ideal Birth, Labor, Lamaze, Pregnancy

One choice affects your whole birth experience

October 26, 2015 By Deena 2 Comments

There is one choice that affects your whole birth experience. It sets the tone for your prenatal visits and affects all further choices you have during pregnancy, labor and birth. Choosing your care provider is the most important choice you can make. Do you choose an Obstetrician, Family Practice physician, Maternal Fetal Medicine or a Midwife? […]

Filed Under: Into the Light, Main Blog Page Tagged With: Birth, Birth Plan, Childbirth, Childbirth Education Classes, Decision making, Expectations, Lamaze, Midwife, OB, Obstetrician, Pregnancy

More Confused than when You Started: The Pitfalls of Asking for a Referral for a Doctor or Midwife

March 21, 2014 By Deena Leave a Comment

I’ve asked similar questions myself regarding different types of professionals. Our friends’ opinions matter to us. We trust those that have worked with someone to give us guidance and recommendations. The problem is when one friend loves the doctor and the other has had a bad experience. It is complicated by the third person who […]

Filed Under: Featured Home Page, Into the Light, Main Blog Page Tagged With: Choosing a care provider, Communication, Decision making, Expectations, Ideal Birth, Midwife, OB, Pregnancy, Referrals, Social Media

Six is the new Four, with regards to the start of Active Labor

March 18, 2014 By Deena Leave a Comment

A few weeks ago ACOG updated their guidelines for preventing a primary c-section. One of their points is that active labor is 6 cm, not 4. This is a big deal and can reduce the number of c-sections done for “failure to progress”. Please share this information! More: Science & Sensibility: Safe Prevention of the Primary […]

Filed Under: Into the Light, Main Blog Page Tagged With: ACOG, Birth, C-section, Cesarean Birth, Childbirth, Decision making, Labor, OB, Pregnancy, Valid Medical Reason

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